I have been drafting a letter to OW actually since I cant beat her up. Words can hurt much more than punches...H said I can write to her whatever I want. I dont know if I will send it but I have not yet decided. I think if I feel reasonably secure with H that I will send it. As closure.
When I told him, that making me doubt my own gut feeling and eyes was the meanest thing he did, he agreed. He said, in his eyes, BiL is 100% right but that doenst solve anything.
