Oh, wow, poor S! =( Yeah, H should feel bad for not being there...again. Less words more action!
That's tough when those around you have good things happening to them, and while you're happy for them, it's a reminder of how we're not there yet. Last year, I had 6 weddings to go to. I felt like such the cynic everytime I went to one, thinking yeah, right, "Til death do you part". With the friend that just reconciled with her H, were they mutual friends of yours and H? If so, maybe her H would be willing to talk to your H about where he's at now. Or even just talk to you about it. I'm curious about what makes a man finally cross over that line to wanting to be a family man again. Maybe it could provide us some valuable insight for our own H's.
Well, I hope today is a better day for you and S and that you were both able to get some sleep!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10