And the not believe what you hear stuff goes both ways
If he says somethign nice or something not so nice... ignore it. If your husband IS a romance addict, he will ENJOY pursuit and you playing a bit hard to get... so even if its sincere it should not be harmful
I am bout 10% confident in him right now... the rest I am holding back until he displays more commitment...
To confirm :
Has your husband at ALL or in ANY way shown remorse for apologized for his infidelity?
From my reading so far all i ahve seen is aviodance on his part, avoidance and self-righteousness... which again is addiction talking not him. I just wanted to find out how much humlity he's offerin gup.. THAT is something you would do best to measure.. IF you can spot some sincere remorse on his end. I don't recall him making any demonstrations of remorse at ALL yet.
