CTH...it sounds like your W's motion is a pendente lite or order of temporary support. The lower wage earner routinely files this in order to make sure they can support themselves and the children during the D process.

The fact that your W has threatened you with online pornography suggests that she is gearing up for a fight. I had the same thing. Most men look at this stuff but the women like to bring this up and use it against you. My atty, a woman, would say to me "the judge looks at it in his chambers."

I just want to say caution to you. I would now live your life as if you are being taped or video'd. I would NOT say anything that you wouldn't want a courtroom to hear. Women who have been through this talk to each other. They give each other ideas. You describe an opposing L who may live by the motion making. Live your life with your head high, but, realize that you may be being hunted.

Divorce sucks but it IS a business. In the long run, the judge only wants to know numbers for a settlement and an agreement for parenting time.

Teddy Roosevelt said, "speak softly but carry a big stick." I recommend that you live your life that way until this is done. I'm sorry you have to go thru this.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;