In your place, I would probably be firing off an email saying that, "I been hearing some things around and I don't know if there's anything to them or not. But I just wanted to ask that as the mother of your children and as your legal wife, that I believe I deserve the respect to hear it from you if you are dating or seeing any of our mutual friends or acquaintances. You know this isn't what I wanted for us, so please have the decency to be honest with me so that I'm not fodder for local gossip as a stereotypical, the wife was the last to know. Thank you."
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