Into my arms... #70

[Kalni]

Ohh and he hardly goes to his morning job 3 days out of 5. He says he doenst want to leave our home and the kids. He didnt go to work today either...

[JCJ]

(((Maria)))

I just wanted to say that I am so pleased for you and recognise how much you have overcome to get to this point. You deserve so much credit. I don't often post as you get so much advice on here but I really think you should take a moment and just feel proud of yourself.

I could go into lots of talk of beavers and socks at this point but that should really be left to the expert, Ms Oneday . Needless to say, I'm sure that time will overcome the making love as apposed to sex as well as lots and lots of practice .
Take care lovely xx

[BobbiJo]

Definitely not TMI. These are those actual, noticeable steps we used to talk about last year. When 'baby steps' and 'patience' were forbidden words!!! There is now visible progress, which is awesome!

Glad your mom is improving, thinking of your family!

[kat727]

I am going to agree with Bobbi Jo but I am ducking in case the words are still big No, No's!!

So happy for you.

kat

[MichelleLT]

Glad your mom seems to be improving.

Thinking of you and your family.

So glad your sex life is continuing to be good. That's such a great step.

[mishka422]

So happy your mom is doing better. That is truly scary to see her suffer when your dad is suffering at the same time. I will continue to keep both of them and your family in my prayers.

The passion will bring you closer K. Back to whispering soft words and giving loving touches. This is just one more step in building the new M you want. Get what you want! Don't hold back. Why don't you whisper sweet words to him during ML?

[Kalni]

H called. His stbxBil, went by their (his and Sil's)shop last night and found SiL in a car outside the shop with a 25yr old (she is 42). He made her come out and beat her up. This morning he went to the family house and SiL called the police in front of their 2 boys. A mess. H is shocked and very worried. All I managed to say was "consequences". H brushed it off and said, I dont doubt BiL is right and he lost his temper but that wont change the fact that he crossed a line. SiL has dropped so low... And H's BiL, unfortunately lost it. I dont say what he did was right but the man has survived one A in the past and this time I think it is his breaking point. I am getting worked up again. I told H to tell his sister to be honest with her stbX and woman up and quit playing the victim. That she should just proceed with the D and make herself clear instead of driving the man crazy saying he has indication and not proof for what she is doing. THe nerve of thsi woman is... I am sad about the kids. I got sad I never got to kick OW's ass...
K

[MichelleLT]

Ouch!

I think I feel the worst for BIL...both that he's been dealing with SIL and her As and that he lost his temper and might get into trouble.

SIL...well...not so much...

[kat727]

Sometimes I guess you do get what is coming to you. So sorry that there is more upset in your family. Hope your SIL realizes what she has done to create this mess. Somehow I doubt it though.

kat

[Kalni]

H's family is a well respected one. His mom, my MiL was a saint and a very classy lady. Sometimes I think, she died only not to be present to what her kids did with their Ms.

This all sounds soooo...cheap, low and I am not talking about cheating only. I am talking about lies, making the other person feel crazy, using her kids and her father... My FiL was here all afternoon, I asked him if everybody is Ok and he said they are all fine. The man is pretending to me and probably to himself this isnt happening.

I feel bad my kids belong to this family almost. I was so fond of them, all of them, there were times I wished my family was more like theirs. Feeling guilty for those thoughts and so proud of my parents and brother...