Hour later realise dinner needs doing H is still looking glum, now one of his moans was I was always looking on the bright side which made him feel like I wasn't acknowleding things, so I said I don't want to try and do the bright and cheery but what can I do, so it was a hug which he then spills... He's not eaten all day and not taj ken his AD's WTF so I've cuddled, fed and told him he needs to look after himself, how on earth did he think he was going to look like the man for the job Arrrrrrrrhhhhhhhh.
Right that's me ranting can't even go for a drink now as he's just doubled his AD dose!!!!!!
Please tell me we will get through this, all I wanted was just one bit of good news not a weekend of grumpyness!
You two will get through this. If a weekend of grumpiness happens, go do something fun for yourself. Don't let him drag you into it. The work stuff and the AD stuff is his to own and feel without blaming it on you somehow.
Good job not trying to put too positive a spin on things when he wants to complain some. It's hard to strike the balance between wallowing with and making someone feel heard.
Make sure you get some LR time in the next few days so a row does not start or you don't get his mood contagiously!
