I still don't know if I believe her... She's making an awfullly brave show of things, but she's also slipping in a lot of shots that arne't convicning me she's grown up at all.
Based on that e-mail exchange, I don't think I trust ANY of the three of them, and would advise you do the same, Passenger.
This OW is just SEETHING with entitlement, her husband seems like a total wimp and you already know what I think about your husband in his current state.