Bobby - I can only repeat what others say time and time again...
The only person you have control over is you. You have to work so hard on yourself and get to the point where your W starts thinking for herself that she wants to carry on through life with you.
It's very hard to stand back and let her get on with it. It's also very hard not to rely on others to bring her to her senses. But that's what you'll have to do.
Work on yourself. BE the man she married. Others will notice I promise. And the change will be reported back to mission control
Please don't let the situation get on top of you - that's just adding fuel to the fire.
