This isn't always the case Allen. You state it as though it is fact but it is your opinion, and it is not correct always.
The important thing is to talk and decde what you both want in life now.
First off, I never said it was always the case, it is usually the case according to experts. And secondly it is NOT MY opinion. It is the SHARED EXPERIENCe of infidelity EXPERTS... do not dismiss the experience of experts who deal with hundreds of cases and pass it off as me only peddling my one sample case in my own life. It's not my opinion I am offering, its a conclusion of many experts based on hundreds of case studies.
As long as he's high on his affair and his brain is in a fog talkign and deciding isn't giong to be fruitful much at all.
It's been TWO days since exposure.. And he's been dismissive and avoidant, not remoseful and cooperative. I hardly think this man is emotionally prepared or intellectualy prepared to make intelligent decisions about his marriage with a spouse he's been lying to for weeks wtihout even owning up to it yet.
