The kids will not be there. It is a school fundraiser but is what we call a chicken and beer dance out here in the sticks. You pay for your ticket and that includes a meal and beer for the whole night.
She of course swears there is no A and never was. I didn't really try to convince her. I asked if she knew what an EA was. She said she did, who did I think she was having an EA with, blah, blah, blah. The phone calls, txt msgs, erasing her phone history, she denies everything. Blames me for being in a bad mood even when we did go out. I said I can understand how you could feel that way, I wasn't fun to be around all the time. I think I said all the right things.
She hasn't "come clean" about a lot of things yet. There are things I know about the OM that she doesn't know I know. Info from sources that I trust. I guess until she does, my course of action should be the same.