It's tempting to ask my new neighbour who is a friend of V's. My neighbour is recently separated too and we confided in one another about our sitches. Otherwise I don't really have a source of intel other than hiring a PI. It's possible that I could shame H into disclosing. He would understand what an awkward position it puts me in if he's in a R with this woman without my knowing it.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
