Too Late For Us?

[mrbt]

I'm about to show my ignorance here, so be patient with me. I obviously don't know much about this process, but wouldn't your presence be required at a hearing?

No. My presence is not required at the hearing. I have already signed the MDA (marital dissolution agreement - this specifies how we divide our assets) and the FD (final decree - this says "yep we are divorced"). As I understand it, its a lot like traffic court at this point. She needs to be there because she is the plaintiff.

As for the OM, how recently did she say she was in love with him?

This was part of a conversation we had Monday afternoon. It went something like: "I do still love you . . . blah blah blah . . . I also love OM . . . blah blah blah" I also learned (in another conversation) that the OM doesn't want a relationship with her because he is afraid of me - he thinks that even after the divorce I would interfere. I guess he doesn't like to have the shoe on the other foot as they say.

Today is good. . . its dark and rainy.