I know that it's complicated with you both living in different cities. What is the distance in between? If he found a room in your town, could he commute to work? It would make more sense for him to come to you, then you transplanting the whole family at this stage. You can tell him that once you restore your marriage, you would consider moving. At this stage he should make the sacrifices if he is serious about reconciling.
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He proposed that he hangs out at my house for 4 weeks.
I'm not sure if that's the best solution.
A) What is he going to find out in 4 weeks? That's not realistic, repairing this kind of damage in marriage will take months and long term commitment. He has issues and you have issues that you need to deal with.
B) What about the children? What impact would this 4-week visit have on them?
BTW is he reconnecting with the kids, is he taking any interest in your household like offering any help or showing in actions that he wants to a part of the family again?
No easy answers SCH....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
