DLS and Coach,

I know I have no control over who she is friends with or the fact of what she is going to do while away.
I accept that fact.

I found out today that her "friend" already tried to hook her up with someone so I am not happy that W is going away for 4 days with this person.

W did say that she was not ready to do that. But this was a few months age.
Maybe this time she IS ready.

That is her choice and I will respond accordingly when I find out more.

In the mean time she still has not contacted me yet to met to discuss the post marital agreement. (3 weeks now)

She has taken her time with everything thus far so.

Any advice on handling this?

Should I email her and tell her I am ready to meet so we could get this agreement in place?

Or should I continue being patience and let her handle when we meet?

Pros and Cons in My mind:

Pro- She she me taking the intiative to meet. I am showing her I am OK with her decision and I am handling it in a mature way.

Con- I am pressuring her to meet so I'm showing her That I am ready to move on w/o her.

UMM


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