Don't agree to be in a triangle, (if one does exist).
Allen, you talk about dignity and respect - well from what passenger say's it sounds like those are two things she has stolen from her H as much as he is doing from her. Two wrongs don't make a right. Sometimes a guy will react better to a softer approach - not a doormat approach - but a softer approach.
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I have made mistakes over the years... I have done a, b, and c. We both made a lot of mistakes. It is time we took ownership of those, you are absolutely correct.
Now, you are hurting ME by doing x, y, and z.
Please stop your infidelity.
Yep, I could see that being good but I don't know if she has to state more than he is hurting her as she has already said how. I do think the "Please stop your infidelity" bit should be kept in though - though has either aprty actually admitted infidelity and is it proven? Sorry I just can't remember - I will go back to the beginning of the thread.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
