I was going to speak to him, nothing goes in writing because I know she and he are emailing and she'll trash it - he's so easily swayed. For example, his friends told him they noticed something up with him for 3 years and now he's thinking our M has been bad for 3 years. Not saying it has or hasn't, just that he's TOTALLY relying on outside influences to say how long it's been, like he needs justification.
Saffie, I appreciate your comments. I'm taking a big step here, it's a 180 for sure, to bare my soul like this. Here's to hoping it's received well. I don't expect him to jump up and down and send flowers, but in the next few days I'll know if it's been received or not.
