My wife was bringign mistakes I made TEN YEARS prior to the affair that I had NOT repeated... I was quick to ask her "do you have anything recent? Because you reek of cheat RIGHT NOW so your ten year old complaints don't really carry a lot of credibility on this side of the fence..."
Totally agree! He's bringing up mistakes from 12 years ago, things I didn't even REMEMBER - but his emotions are raw now and real now. I will bring up the 12 year old problem.
