Thanks Mila. I really appreciate your thoughts. Considering everything that's going on, I'm holding up pretty well. First step is getting through Grandpa's surgery today. He is very frail, and both my wife and I fear he won't make it.
I hope everything went well today. I have kept him in my thoughts and prayers. I'm also sorry to hear about your grandmother. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Please know that we are all here for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It's hard when loved ones are in a health crisis. Thinking of you and your family...
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D - I am sorry and will be praying for you and your family.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Spent majority of the past 2 days at the hospital. Grandpa's surgery went fine Tuesday evening but an hour after he was back in his room his blood pressure started to drop. My wife and I both left around 10:30. My wife texted me at 12:30AM to tell me that they moved him to ICU. Found out later at this point, he almost passed away.
I met wife yesterday morning and we rode to the hospital together to relieve her mom and grandma. He's in critical but stable condition but was doing better by the time we left yesterday. His blood pressure is back up to normal so they were able to start giving him pain meds.
I'm glad I was able to be there for them and I know it was appreciated by everyone including my wife.
Thanks averyone for the thoughts and prayers. This place really is a blessing.
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DM, That's a very good news that grandpa is going OK.
You should feel good about being there. I'm sure that it made more impact on your wife then she would admit to herself right now but she will remember it.
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