luv, nothing else to add, you've gotten great advice. I'm glad to see you're taking charge of the situation and seeing it from a slightly different (and much needed) perspective. Good job!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again