souunds like a wave of GUILT has taken him now...the lies the hurt, the disappointment of failing as a H and perhaps a F?
they are looking for that sympathy (same thing my W did after i gave her a strong front to face everyday.), trying to turn the table and make them look like a victim in the whole scheme of things.....strange stuff A's and the aftermath.
your are right it was his DECISION - now what you do from herre forward is up to you.
take your time.
Gman
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit