I'm afraid you are all right about FWB's just not working between us. The funny thing is that I'm the one that seems to be putting up walls between us, just being very offhand with him and he's the one that walks up behind me and grabs my butt playfully or jokes about the amount of cardio that must be involved in our extracurricular activities. Good GOD! WTH?

I'm going to have to sit him down and have a talk about boundaries with him ASAP. I think I need him to voice what he thinks is going on. I know what I want and what I don't want but I'm not very good at saying it out loud. Next hurdle!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!