IDU, hey man. Yes, go to the dance. I would if I were you. Of course she's going to teel you she doesn't care if you go or not. She might not want to give you any positive signs because she's afraid you will jump all over it and smother her? I don't know, just a thought.

She has already brought up that you don't give her a kiss before bed or work sometimes. She's watching what you do. She will be watching to see of you go to the dance. Go to it. Be there and be supportive. She will be stressed with all of the work she needs to do at the dance so be prepared for it. Don't expect her to thank you for going and helping but deep inside she will probably be happy that you went and helped. This is a good opportunity to be there for her. Just don't make it about you.

My 2 cents for what it's worth. Go and be cheerful. Good luck.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
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