Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[courts0818]

It makes me wonder. We had a really good Easter. He came to church with DD & I. That's only the 2nd time he's been to church with us in the last 2 years - for Christmas to see DD sing and for Easter. After church, we took DD to his aunt's for an egg hunt, came home did another egg hunt and let her open her Easter basket. Then the following day - PA bomb.

I just don't know. It seemed like things had been going better for us, we were texting and talking more - but all that good stuff is now tainted by what has happened.

About a month ago, he made some comment in a text that he made a mistake. When I asked what the mistake was he said moving out. He started a new job about 2 weeks ago - so there is a lot going on with him and like you said, gman, probably a lot of things going through his head.

Whatever though...I don't have any sympathy or compassion for him right now. He also commented that he's sick of $hit, money issues, life (I guess he's just feeling stressed, maybe a little depressed?), but really there's no empathy here. He did all of this to himself.