GM, Thanks for taking the time to read my sitch. Although at times I do get angry, I never unleash it around W. I do come here to vent. I feel I am far enough in this process to let my emotions get the best of me when dealing with W.
I do or at least did trust her completely but since she is not in the right frame of mind I am concerned about her going away for 4 days with her divorced friends. They will not encourage her to "behave". [quote=Glimmerman] Part of loving her is trusting her. It doesn't appear in your posts that she has done anything to violate your trust. So trust her until proven otherwise.quote]
I will know more about our R after she returns from her getaway.
If she decides to hook up with someone than I will decide to move on completely.
As stated before we both hold this value. I know I have been faithful and will remain faithful until it's time for my not to be. But at that point I will absolutely know I'm done.
My W hasn't asked me about C in over 2 months. If fact she hasn't asked me anything that pertains to me. Doesn't bother me at all. I am confident in myself and my changes. I know I am a great Dad to my kids and an all around nice person with plenty to offer.
I'll know more soon.
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