Yes, ^^^ this is exactly where I am at this point! I have accepted the fact that she is not coming back and that is her problem. She is headed toward a big let down with this other guy, he will never leave his wife and kids.period. I may not be around for her to fall back on when and if she ever figures out that she was used by him. When you guys are as far along in this as I am then I think you will understand it better.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
