v1olin,

Can you accept that there may be NO way to get the WAW to come around? That they will come around if and when they feel like it?

That they may have to go through serious adverse situatoin, IE: OM was using them as a whore, and bad talked them terribly outside of their presense, put them in harms way, etc?

That Going Dark, 180 might be about doing what you have to do anyway? Living your life, and not even hoping she comes back? But if WAW does, evaluating that decision when you get there?