No, no, My wife is not acting. I have tried that strategy myself though. That IS what going dark, acting as if, and many of the other DB techniques ARE.

I have seen it work many, many times to get the WAW to come around enough to work on the relationship.

Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final