My C, feels like I should be actively asking my wife out on dates, she says this because a week ago my wife and i were sitting down on the couch and she had a migrane(sp) and i was rubbing the space between her thumb and first finger, it is supposed to relieve pressure on your head. Anyways after words she gets up to leave and she says I love you, no hesitation just I love you but I fumbled the ball and didn't say it back, i didn't dwell on it too much just moved on. My C says that this is a sign or signal that she wants me to presue her. Where as here with a WAW we are told that we shouldn't persue the W, that it will only make them move further away. I know each sitch is in its most basic form are the same, but with me I seem to be getting a postive reaction from taking her out and filling her love tank, which is quality time.

I just don't know if maybe my patience is wearing thin. we have been seperated since Feb 18th. I want to do things with her but with out pressuring her. Which I don't bring up our R or M, I just talk about our kids and other everyday things.

Can anyone give me advice as to what I can to do not rush it but show her that I have interest, that I want us to work but I am willing to give her the time and space. Sandi, Prairie Girl?

Anyone who can give me some smidge of advice, or insight as to where her head is at?

I don't want to doubt my C, because well she is good but I am getting conflicting advice.

HELP

Last edited by Wildaces81; 04/08/10 02:49 PM.

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