Dear Julia,

Thank you for your post.

I also want to thank you for all the support over the last year or so, your advice has been greatly received.

I will continue to read posts sent to me, and I will try and offer support to others here in need of advice or just to vent.

I so hope your journey to Thailand is a success, a real life-changing opportunity for you to possibly start a new life, I will think of you and hope you find true happiness.

I, like you have wanted to go somewhere different for ages - a skiing environment in either France or Switzerland, but my children are my life now and I don't think it would be fair on them if I decided to leave the country.

This is an issue for me as I know I will not be truly happy if I don't take the opportunity to go, but do I have to sacrifice my own happiness so that I am here for my children, I just do not know?

I wish you all the luck in the world on your journey, my thoughts and hopes are with you.

Take care,

Mark

Last edited by markhaving probs; 04/08/10 02:35 PM.

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