PI in place for Monday am meeting. Cash reserved to pay them.
IF there's something there:
Attorney info secured. Legal SA to be drafted. (I'll need access to cash immediately, and he'll see that I mean business.)
Local (and somewhat local!) support available, and on back-up, if needed. (This will be the most important.)
IF there's not something there:
Full court press w/out major pressure. Time-frame for allowable response - End-of-month - After that, don't let the door hit you in the as$ on the way out.
This won't work as is, as the resentment wall is building, and I don't go "back" well, nor do I forgive well. This will get interesting because he will NOT leave his boys.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.