Well, WH called last night and still says he wants to reconcile.
He also realizes that since I live in another city and work full-time and look after the kids full-time, that it would be hard for me to "date" him in his city.
He proposed that he hangs out at my house for 4 weeks.
But then what???? If it's all love and romance, he can work on trying to get a job in my city, or put me back in the untenable position of living in 2 cities while having a "relationship"?
He says it's not fair to make him try to find work here if I'm not taking him back, because then he doesn't want to live here, he wants to live in his city. And he still maintains that we should NOT live in his city (He has a point because I do have an amazingly great job here, and the kids are thriving, but don't really care as I can work there at something in his city, and the kids will do well if we do, yes?)
Sound reasonable, smelly, please DBs... WHAT do you think??
