I'm reading "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It." My heart just hurts so much for what I've done.

In the section on "the worst things a woman does to a man" - I do half of them.

I want to cry, I just want someone to tell me it's going to be OK, it's not too late to save this and make him feel good again.

Excluding him from important decisions
Robbing him of the opportunity to help
Correcting what he said
Questioning his judgment
Giving him unsolicited advice
Ignoring his advice
Implying inadequacy
Making unrealistic demands of his time and energy
Overreacting
Ignoring his basic needs
Withholding praise
Using a harsh tone
Interrupting him

Guys, I'm so very sad right now. I want to hug him and tell him I'm so very sorry. Should I write it into a letter to him? Should I tell him? Should I just leave it alone?

And yes, I'm looking for a FT but haven't found one yet.


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