So, I have a txt message today from my W's cousin.

He tells me, that he's not willing to get involved in the unpleasant accusations between me and my W but that he's concerned for my health and well being. He asks me if I'm still doing therapy, etc. Basically he wants me to let him know how I'm doing.

I trust him but of course but, whatever I reply will definitely reach my W at some point.

I was thinking of replying:

I sincerely appreciate your concern for my well being. I'm happy to say I'm good. The therapy has helped me a lot and my health is also much better. I know this situation has been extremely unpleasant for all of us and I'm sorry for any discomfort that I may have caused to you and the family. You know I love and respect you all. All I can say is that I'm doing what I feel I need to do to fight for my marriage and protect my wife. Thank you for maintaining your objectivity and not getting involved. Love, F.

Last edited by FormelyknownasF; 04/08/10 10:27 AM.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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