You're absolutely right, Saffie. I know that. I was pretty sure he'd be of no help to me but I listened to the advice here and thought I'd give it another shot. I've never met a man with less guts that this guy. No wonder OWH went after my H (or he after her and she allowed it)
I shan't be contacting him again. I said my piece, and now I need to intel gather some other way.
She's an aggressive, heartless woman and I can't believe my H thinks she's sweet... but hey, that's the way the cookie crumbled for me. I just told H that I called him so he'd be warned before going to work and hearing a huge, long email from her about how I have been harassing her.