passenger, the more you contact OW and let her bait you, (and you fall for that), the more desperate you show yourself to be.

You need to find a way to get to OWH if you think he will help you - if you really think he won't then what is the point. OW is point scoring off you.

I think yo need to find another way round to getting to your H and OW.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength