BTW, that "what works for you" question also applies to "what works for you in bed" should you find yourself back there. I bring this up, because the last thing you want to do is renew yourself sexually in a way that brings in old stuff that didn't work for you. (Not saying there was any, but I think for most young women, there is. You know, like faking Os, hiding what you really want, etc...) Forget Gabe, forget what might happen next week. Right now the focus is on YOU. If you are going to be sexual, be sexually authentic. It is a fresh sexual start. Be who you really want to be sexually (as with the other parts of your life.)