1) I call BULL on the FWB biz. Maybe that's how you'd like to feel. I don't buy for a minute that is what is going on with you. Be honest with yourself.
2) XH has not been in a monogomous R for a very long time I'd guess anyway. Do NOT have unsafe sex with him.
3) Quit trying to figure our what last night meant for your life 15 years from now or even a year from now. You can't. Sorry, you are psychic. Astrology won't help you either.
4) Again, no sudden action. You need time to breathe, think, reflect. What works for YOU?
No matter what, that is the question that still matters the most. Work on being who YOU want to be.
