Oops. I meant to write: "XH, thanks for your concern. I may take you up on your offer of help at some point in the future. It will be good for DS to be able to benefit from you in his life more often. But, until I ask for your input on my parenting in my house on my time, please put your criticisms and orders right where you head belongs, up your ... "
P.S. I wrote a few posts on SmileyPerson's thread that annoyed him to no end, but you might find them useful.
BTW, just wondering, did you get any emails from me recently? I think my email may not be working properly.