Ok here's where I need help
H is coming over tomorrow night after dinner and then I'm going to rehearsal. There will be some overlap potentially as H refuses to let me know what time he will arrive.

What do I do? Leave immediately? Go to the back room? He's going to try to engage me in "normalish" talk which until now I have encouraged to dissipate the tension - for me, and for S.

If i"m dim, how should I respond instead?


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship