'Trying' - I am glad you have in-laws that are supportive to you. In my sitch my ILS to this day have not contacted me in any way to say how sorry they are that things have ended this way.
I find it incredible that these people that were a part of my life for fifteen years, two holidays a year together, parties, dinners, weddings etc, never had the common decency to even write a letter to me......absolutely nothing!
You would have thought it was ME that had an affair. They have buried their heads in the sand and sided with their daughter. I can understand the blood thicker than water bit, but I am wondering if they are in denial, though I would assume my W is probably telling them what a terrible person I am on a daily basis.
Gucci - Thanks again for your imput. I know exactly what you mean, but to tell you the truth, I have been so unhappy over the last eighteen months that I honestly feel as though I dare not attempt to be happy as it will come crashing down around me. It might sound strange but at the moment I cannot imagine ever being happy again, I take one day at a time, but I know I still have to sell our home, find somewhere to live, plan some kind of future and on..and on..
Everything seems like a major issue at the moment, but it is only you guys here that helps me keep my head above water.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
