Hi Celestial,
It has been just as long for me. I can't believe it is almost 7 years. A d did not help. My former h is still in replay. In fact it is so normal for him I wonder if he ever had an mlc. I know he is still unhappy but does not outwardly show it.

Your h thinks that a d will make him happy but once it is all said and done he will know what he has lost. If he is anything like mine he will stay in replay so he does not have to deal with his life.

You in the meantime will move forward with your life.