Oh yea, he'd just love that. That's his dream come true that I"m just fine walking away and leaving him alone. Grrrrrrrrrrr He's going to get the silent treatment, sorry. I"ve been pleasant for months just to have nothing in return.
Giving the silent treatment isn't really a 180 because it's punishing him for not giving you the closeness that you want. Cheerfully giving him space and not engaging with him is a 180. It's also a way to maintain your dignity, and the best choice for your S
(((Hope)))
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
