Sometimes it takes experiencing infatuation yourself to understand who you really are not what / who you try to be because of your current situation.
I don't think even Confusious could said that any better...
When you find someone else who thinks you are "all that" and you like her too... Could be your new beginning. Suddenly you will have a skip in your step. Life will be good again. What did I ever see in my ex will be planted firmly in your soul. I will never let a woman do that to me again will be your new mantra.
It really is OK to find someone else. It really really is. Who cares if others tell you that you aren't ready or you shouldn't this or shouldn't that.
Should we be scared to take up a new hobby because it makes us happy and we shouldn't get our happiness from a hobby?
Should we do anything that makes us happy? We can say anything that helps us to be happy shouldn't be part of our lives until we are happy with ourselves.
See how ridiculous it sounds? Find another woman. Be open. This one is helping to cause you unhappiness. Don't do things that keep causing you unhappiness. That isn't smart. Be smart.
