Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[courts0818]

rr22,
I like your thinking - counseling in the am, chillaxin in the pm. : )

Good point about couseling helping me to understand if working through this might be something I want and if H is taking enough responsibility. I have a feeling that will be an issue. Like in some sick way, he'll try to act like his cheating was justified bc he wasn't happy, he wasn't getting his sexual needs met at home or some other bogus excuse.

So true - I don't have the desire to invest more energy into something that both of us don't want. That was a helpful post, thank you.

As for sleep, Ugh - I don't feel tired and I'm gonna have a sweet little 3 yr old who is fully charged and ready to go early in the morning.