Courts said: I'm not big on the counseling thing, but I absolutely recongize that I have a lot of emotions to work through. It could be a good outlet for me - although I'd be happy to work through my emotions in a hot tub with a nice, fruity cocktail. ; ) j/k
I'm pro counseling in the morning, fruity cocktail and hot tub in the evening!
I agree that a few sessions of counseling can give you an idea of whether YOU can handle even considering working through this to reconcile and get a prediction of whether or not they think HE is taking enough responsibility at this point in his life to truly fix it. THe last thing you want is to put a bunch of effort in that will lead to nothing because you or he is not able at this time. It can just help you sort things out or, at least, vent in a private space and LEAVE some of the crap THERE.
