Dude, I still don't understand why she's out having fun and you're moping around the house. What do you guys do for fun together? How do you make her feel special (other than acting like a jealous, needy introvert)? Just out of curiousity, what did you do, socially, that turned her other friends off so much? How did you feel about that - was it a fair analysis?
I've been checking out meetup.com groups. Maybe you should look on there and see if anything sounds like fun. Suggest a get-together to her as a way to get out and experience new things. Spend some light-hearted - let's have fun - not talk about R - time together.
As someone who went down the drinking path, I'd be aware of that one. Drinking is an escape. I say that, though, with caution. You aren't going to run off and text her about it, are you? Or want to turn it into a R talk when she gets home? Cause that'd be a bad bad move.
