I don't know how he justifies MC. The MC doesn't either. I have worked on confrontin ghim on his anger and had some success. In his mind it could be just for co parenting, though, I don't know.

Before all this went down i told him we never worked on our deeper issues, even when together and i felt that we didn't know each other. I told him I waited until the sep papers were signed at his request but now I want to talk about those thins. He agreed! More mixed signals. IRght when he's saying all this bout being done and having a gf.

I told him also that just as he wants me to face that D maybe best I want him to consider that working on our M may be best. I know it's not DB but he agreed to that too! I'm telling you I don't know what ot think.

You're right I can still keep it up and go to my neighbor's. For now at least.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship