No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

"Did you make plans with her to go to Mass? I am not saying to kiss her @ss I am just saying that she is watching you and she is waiting for you to screw up. I hope you did not get mad at her but rather appologize and then move on."

Actually I was the one who suggested it. She wouldn't have gone otherwise. I apologized for missing it at least twice that day.

"Did you ask her why you were getting the silent treatment? Asking her might get her to open up."

I didn't really ask, I joked to her that she has a lousy poker face when she tries to hide that she's pissed. She kind of laughed and said "who said I was hiding it?"

I've gone past that point of being "tested". I was late. I apologized. Deal with it. In the beginning of my sitch I apologized for EVERYTHING. I stopped going overboard and only apologize when I know I'm wrong. I've already told her before that if she's ever upset at something I did to just let me know.

My W, as a whole, just doesn't open up. She tries to avoid conflict as much as possible. I was seeing her behavior as hiding her head in the sand and just keeping it all in. Even when I see that she's bothered by something, I ask her if she's okay or if there's something she'd like to talk about and she always says she's 'fine' or it's 'okay'.

That's what gets me so steamed about the OM. I would see something's wrong (even long before the OM), ask her about it, or do things to help her deal with issues without talking about it and she shafts me.

Her loss.