Thanks No More, I am trying to have hope, one of us has to!
OW, ugh. I don't think so, but who does? I've read too many posts here to be able to type "no way". I have checked his cell a few times since my first visit to this forum. I don't see anything fishy in his text or call history. He leaves his phone charging in the kitchen at night and doesn't lock it. He's not on FB very often. But, he could be e-mailing someone and I wouldn't know.
He also doesn't have any sense of urgency to get out of the marriage. He seems to feel that the process will take a long time to figure out.
On top of it all, a year ago our best friends had to deal with the H's A. My H got a call from someone who saw his friend out with another W and we had to intervene and expose the A. We are the God parents of their kids and we felt we had to expose. It's been a year of hell helping that family through this. Everything we have done for them has been to save their marriage.
